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Lights by Annette Snyckers

On winter mornings
it is still dark
when you get up.
I lie a little longer
watching light creep
into the room,
across the bed,
up the white wall
until it touches
the ceiling.

You bring my tea
your black coffee.
We read a while,
news of our
woeful world –
of fires of floods
of fugitives
of births and deaths
of betrayals
beheadings.

Bewildered,
I come back
into this room
now brimful
with sunshine,
in which
I am sitting –
blessed
beyond
understanding.

LITTLE BIRD SINGS

Every part of my garden is a lyric

Under the shade of tall trees

Thorny cactus form the edges

The dark soil hides the relic

Crooked cracks lodge an army of bees

Its constant renewal and healing balm are worthy than wages

Little bird sings

Welcome to my world

Autumn leaves fall

Roll on a colorful carpet

The wind isn’t cold

It is Fall

The insects drum a trump

Little bird sings

Listen to the bruised barks and chopped trunks

Denounce it in melancholic melody

Dust and stones have replaced the green

Uprooted from its natural banks

Who could play a rhapsody?

The change can be seen.

Little bird sings

Hypnotic Winter call in a rusty voice

In Spring, I blossom

No more garments, my eyes cry

Frosted lawn offer a haunted peace

Destruction and devastation rise from the bosom

Beautiful Summers are now sting dry

Little bird sings.

IN THE WIND

When the wind hits my skin,
it reminds me I’m alive.
When I exhale
and inhale,
I feel my heart
push against my chest.

During the day, I hear –
cars hooting,
laughter,
children screaming,
the sound of footsteps hitting the ground,
the voice of a man growling in complaint,
and a woman laughing at the top of her lungs,
only to convince another that she is okay,
and her family affairs are in order.

With the smell of a cooking pot blending,
with a disturbing unfamiliar smell,
I find myself trying to figure out
what this other strange smell could be.
All this is none of my business,
but the wind still blows it my way.

LAMENT FOR CATHERINE

Slowly they drive away; the mother’s heart goes with them

The pallbearers, father, husband, brother, uncle

Pain cutting into their faces as they take up their positions

The mother reaches out to stop them

The pallbearers, father, husband, brother, uncle

A firm hand moves to restrain her

The mother reaches out to stop them

A woman crosses over to hem her in

A firm hand moves to restrain her

Murmured words of sympathy

A woman crosses over to hem her in

She hears the sound of closing doors

Murmured words of sympathy

She recognises fear in other mothers’ eyes

She hears the sound of closing doors

With no experience of death, some smile shyly

She recognises fear in other mothers’ eyes

Pain cutting into their faces as they take up their positions

With no experience of death, some smile shyly

Slowly they drive away; the mother’s heart leaves with them.

Photo Credit: courtesy Unsplash Sandy Millar

JAGUAR

Usually he shaved in the shower. This time

he used the Maca root shave cream bought some

years back at the Body Shop in Djakarta. He ran his hand

over his chin which felt smooth, luxurious, clean.

He still had some Jaguar in a simple but stylish green

bottle with its silver stopper. The scent was immediate

and so distinct. Not sweet but intensely fragrant.

He had been eking out this lotion for years

since receiving it from his mother on one of her flights

from Europe to the Mother City. It was exactly the kind of gift

she would select – expensive, high quality and somewhat arcane.

He had never seen another bottle of Jaguar anywhere.

It was special, in itself and as a unique, one-off memory.

He would never again receive that Jaguar lotion from his mother,

as he would never again live this moment

or any other. There was no point in trying to replace

the precious bottle − the new one might prove to be

a subtle ‘improvement’ or more profitable facsimile,

but almost certainly the replacement would dilute his memory.

Nor was there any point in saving the dregs.

He splashed on some more,

and quietly saluted his mother.

*Photo credit: Axel Adelbert

NOBODY & THANK YOU

[First Poem Written on the Life Writing Course]

NOBODY

I am Nobody because i do not have a voice

I’m expected to do whatever, without given a choice

Nobody, because I’ve always been the lesser one

If anything goes wrong, it’s cos of something I’ve done

Nobody, because I’m disrespected by all

Invisible, despite being there for anyone when they call

Nobody whenever I’m belittled, sworn or shouted at

Everyone takes me for granted and treats me like a doormat

Nobody, because nothing i do is appreciated or seen

Even though i spend hours ensuring the house is clean

Nobody when outsiders get to have the final say

Especially when I’m victimized, they look or walk away

I am Nobody when being ostracized by those i love dearly

The animosity radiated towards me is felt by me clearly

Nobody because when finally i stand up for what’s right

Their response still has me crying,  deep into the night

Nobody because i try so hard just to make them care

But i guess it doesn’t matter, they just pretend I’m not there

I am Nobody because everything i do or say is wrong

Yeah! I must be a Nobody for this to go on for so long

But hey! this Nobody has finally reached the end of her rope

Because this Nobody is tired, and has given up all hope

Therefore, after spending a lifetime as a NOBODY to some

The day when I’ll finally be SOMEONE will come

No matter if what they reminisce about me is all lies

This Nobody will be acknowledged on the day she dies.

[Last Poem Written on the Life Writing Course]

THANK YOU

Watching the wave, as it crashes gently onto the shore

It’s something i never really noticed before

I am so thankful and grateful, that i can finally see

The beauty in everything, that is surrounding me

How is it possible, i never saw any of this before

It seems as if i walked through a magical door

For the past few days i have been in a place

Where only warmth and peace invaded my space

Sitting amongst people who i never met before

A rich diversity of personalities and yet so much more

On my very first day, i was so timid and weak

Scared half to death, lest they ask me to speak

But as the days passed, my confidence has grown

And it’s all due to the compassion this amazing group has shown

Each one of us has a reason for being here

Although mine at first, wasn’t very clear

I have learnt so much, but most important… I had fun

I am not looking forward to the day we are done

So thank you for this opportunity, and each and everyone

For making this week so special, one of the best … bar none!

©Leonora Lewis

Dedicated to the Life Righting Collective

July 2018

THEN & NOW – A SONNET

heady syringas               a garden in spring

a rhythmic mantra that the train tracks sing

amo   amas   amat                     as in a trance

they kiss entwined           under a rising moon

she day-dreams of sheiks on the ride to school

romance   true love   exotic lands    monsoons

but then she sees     guillotined by the wheels

a headless chicken      doing its manic dance

now her journey’s more confined      from the train

she still climbs slopes  flies kites  surfs turquoise waves

sees a lone arum            bloom in winter shade

picks ever-lastings           hears a scops owl call

memories flash by                  ecstasy  and pain

still-life framed         by the windows of a train

MY INHERITANCE

My mother takes to her bed
when the news is bad.
Her mother drank gin
at 6pm on the dot,
with the radio off.

My father turns the shower
to cold for one minute
every morning.
His father
stood on his head daily
while breathing deeply.

I would like to combine
headstands with gin
but instead
there are days when I find myself
under the blankets

holding my breath.

THE WASTELAND

A wasteland mourns in silence,

her quiet grieving interrupted only

by the busyness of chirping birds

and the continuous sound of distant traffic.

A sense of loss still haunts her vacant grounds;

she longs for the community

and the vibrancy of its life

she had sustained for so long

A brutal scourging of her landscape has left her violated,

her neighborhoods reduced to dust and rubble

and her land has become a  barren waste.

Now weeds, shrubs and bushes flourish,

a blatant exploitation of  her vulnerability,

yet their insatiable conquest

for gain and new territory

cannot conceal the evidence of  her once famous legacy

The remnants of paving, pot-holed streets and lanes remain

barely visible, their identities long ago discarded,

though lamentably reminiscent

in the familiar names of the far flung township ghettos

Streets once boasted market stalls

displayed with fruit and veg,

freshly caught fish and fragrant flowers

and traders who beckoned all to spend,

transacting more than just the bargained deal

Spontaneous talk and humorous sharing

of the latest local news exploding into laughter

echoes off cracked walls with peeling paint,

and children’s voices, at their play in dimly sunlit alleyways.

Then all became this silence,

a quiet grieving interrupted only by the busyness of chirping birds

and the continuous sound of distant traffic.

Still amidst a frenzied invasion of weeds, shrubs and bushes,

the pain and precious memories linger,

confined to photographs and a generation now passing on;

the snapshots of moments in time

old and fading in worn out albums with its pages torn.

HOW WE TRY TO HELP

You can’t reach my sister’s door without getting wet.
Scarlet plants along the path collect dew in droplets like blood –
It’s a way of thwarting guests.

Her son’s offer to prune is met with suspicion;
She knows how surgeons tend to overdo.
She limps quite badly, now.

I give her two white towels knit like gauze.
She hangs them next to the shower chair,
And uses them to blot her scars.

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